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		<title>Abandonment Issues Symptoms</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2012 10:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abandonment issues, symptoms of which can take a variety of forms, are probably one of the single most common causes of unhealthy relationships and breakups. On one hand, they can lead to jealousy, pushiness and verbal and physical abuse. On the other hand, they can lead to distancing and coldness. What are the symptoms of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend Quiz</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 09:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.breakup-advice.org/?p=332</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When deciding whether to break up with your boyfriend, you may wonder where you can find a “Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend Quiz” You’d like a list of questions that can help jog your mind and help you come to some conclusion about what to do in a challenging relationship. The best recommendation [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Reader Question: How to Handle a Painful Breakup with a Younger Woman Co-Worker?</title>
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		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/breakup-younger-woman-co-worker#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2011 04:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we have a question from a reader who, in his late 20’s, started dating a 19 year old woman and seemed potentially headed for marriage. However, after a couple years, the relationship started to grow more unstable, leading to a painful breakup. He is struggling to deal with the aftermath, especially given their close [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Respond to Breakup with Ex Who Has Borderline Personality Disorder?: Reader Question</title>
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		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/respond-breakup-ex-borderline-personality-disorder#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 01:07:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we have a question from a reader about how to respond to a sudden breakup with a partner who has Borderline Personality Disorder. The reader has been kind enough to give us permission to post the question and our response so that others can benefit from them. We truly appreciate readers who provide such [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Comparing the Two Fundamental Categories of Breakup Advice</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/two-breakup-advice-categories</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/two-breakup-advice-categories#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 15:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.breakup-advice.org/?p=116</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When in need of breakup advice, people turn to various sources. They may turn to friends or family for personal support and guidance. They may turn to a trained therapist or counselor for professional help. Or they may explore the wide range of books and videos on the market that offer advice on how to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Coping with Breakups</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/coping-with-breakups</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/coping-with-breakups#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Oct 2010 10:25:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Coping with breakups can be challenging. Breakups have the potential to simultaneously crush our hopes and dreams and trigger our deepest insecurities and fears. Yet, while some are lucky enough to marry their first love and stay married for life, most of us will at some point have to face the prospect of coping with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Breakup Advice on Attachment Issues: Healing Opportunity or Relationship Downfall</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/attachment-issues</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/attachment-issues#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2010 16:41:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On one of the breakup advice forums that I often read, someone recently requested advice about an interesting pattern in her relationship. She said that every time she and the man she is dating had a great period of time together, and she began to feel that they were going to become more consistently close, [...]]]></description>
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