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		<title>Can an Insecure Co-Dependent Rebuild Trust with Partner She Caught Cheating?: Reader Question</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/stop-a-break-up/insecure-co-dependent-rebuild-trust-partner-caught-cheating</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2018 02:32:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we respond to a question from a woman who, along with her partner, really wants to salvage their relationship, but is struggling to trust him after he cheated. As you’ll read in our response, it may still be possible for this relationship to become a source of healing and growth for the two of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Making Sense and Responding after Being Left by a Partner with Borderline Personality Disorder: Reader Questions</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/making-sense-responding-left-partner-borderline-personality-disorder</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/making-sense-responding-left-partner-borderline-personality-disorder#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2017 07:37:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we respond to another reader with questions about the breakup of a relationship with a partner with Borderline Personality Disorder. The questions come from Justin. Justin writes: To whom it may concern, I have been left by my BPD ex, she cheated on me and is already seeing someone else. Her spot in our [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Recover from the Breakup of a Codependent Relationship with an Ex with Borderline Personality Disorder?: Reader Question</title>
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		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/how-to-recover-breakup-codependent-relationship-borderline-personality#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 May 2017 04:33:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we have another question from a reader. This question is from a woman who had a long relationship with a partner who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) that ended after that partner cheated. The relationship was challenging, not only because of the involvement of BPD, but also because of this reader’s feeling it needed [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Handling the Pain of Being Passed Over: Reader Question</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/handling-the-pain-of-being-passed-over</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/handling-the-pain-of-being-passed-over#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2013 11:14:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today, we have a question from a reader who finds herself having been passed over for another woman – an event that has happened to her before and that, thus, has left her feeling devastated. She writes: I just turned 50. A year ago I decided to explore online dating after 10 years devoted to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Recovering from the Painful End of an Affair: Reader Question</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/getting-over-a-broken-heart/recovering-from-painful-end-affair</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/getting-over-a-broken-heart/recovering-from-painful-end-affair#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2013 19:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we have a question from a reader who had an affair for a year, which recently ended. She is having an extremely painful experience trying to get over this relationship and asks: I am currently dating a man for 12 years and last January 2012, I met this man. We talked on the phone [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should I Contact My Ex To Forgive Them?: Reader Question</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/should-i-contact-my-ex-to-forgive</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/should-i-contact-my-ex-to-forgive#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 11:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.breakup-advice.org/?p=321</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes after a breakup, we might come to feel we were responsible for what happened and wonder “Should I contact my ex to apologize and let them know how I feel?” Today we respond to a reader who asks just that question. The reader writes: Hello, I am writing to you today because I have [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Enmeshed Relationships: A Reader Question</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/ask-breakup-advice/enmeshed-relationships</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/ask-breakup-advice/enmeshed-relationships#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 22:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.breakup-advice.org/?p=313</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Today we have a reader question that touches on the issue of enmeshed relationships. If you have a question too, feel free to contact us and, when you do, please let us know if we have permission to post your question – with any changes necessary if you wish to protect your anonymity – along [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Controlling Mothers and Breakups: Reader Question</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/controlling-mothers-and-breakups</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/controlling-mothers-and-breakups#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 02:01:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we have a question from a reader about what to do when controlling mothers are involved in the breakup of otherwise seemingly promising relationships. As always we thank the reader for permission to publish the question and our response and welcome your questions. Contact us and please let us know if we have permission [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Move On When I&#8217;m Obssessed with my Ex?: Reader Question</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/move-on-obssessed-with-my-ex</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/move-on-obssessed-with-my-ex#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2011 22:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.breakup-advice.org/?p=273</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Today we have a question from a 17 year old girl who is struggling to get over a breakup with her 18 year old ex-boyfriend. As with all of our readers who give us permission to post their questions and our responses, we thank her. If you wish to ask a question, contact us. If [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Reader Question: How to Handle a Painful Breakup with a Younger Woman Co-Worker?</title>
		<link>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/breakup-younger-woman-co-worker</link>
		<comments>https://www.breakup-advice.org/breakup-advice/breakup-younger-woman-co-worker#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2011 04:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we have a question from a reader who, in his late 20’s, started dating a 19 year old woman and seemed potentially headed for marriage. However, after a couple years, the relationship started to grow more unstable, leading to a painful breakup. He is struggling to deal with the aftermath, especially given their close [...]]]></description>
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